Dealing With A Break-up.

As much as breakups suck, everyone goes through them & end up being ok. You might not think you're going to make it & can't live without the boy but you can, I promise you. I'll tell you how to get started. :)

First things first,

1.) DELETE him from your phone..

(contact, messages, pictures), & all social media.

What's worse then reading old messages & getting sad thinking of what could have been?

Or seeing his new life with maybe, a new girlfriend?

I hate to say it but..Keeping him on your phone won't make anything easier!! :(

2.) STAY BUSY!! Staying home in your room watching Netflix with your puppy will make you depressed & you'll get so comfortable doing it that you won't ever want to leave the house.. which isn't a good thing. Instead of isolating yourself, surround yourself with family & friends. If you ever find yourself alone & everyone is busy then you can...

3.) ..TREAT YOURSELF! Get a massage, take a bubble bath, get ice cream, travel!

4.) FOCUS ON YOU. Guess what? Now that you don't have a boyfriend, you have a ton more time on your hands! Start working out, eat healthy.. It'll make you feel so good & your body will start looking better, too! (it'll show him what he lost) ;) Do your homework so you can rock your class with an A! Declutter your room, clean out unnecessary belongings. Like the roses he gave you for Valentines? Chuck 'em! Jewelry, sell it! Clothes he bought you? Donate it! This will get rid of old, negative energy. It feels so good afterwards.

5.) CRY. You can't be strong & hold your tears in forever. Crying is part of getting over him. Listen to songs that can make you shed a tear or two & cry until you don't have any more tears left. It's OK to cry, don't ever forget that. 

My favorite:

6.) GOD'S PLAN. Everything happens for a reason.. Your relationship didn't work out for a reason, God's reason. The reason might not be known at this moment but in the future, you'll find out why I didn't work out with him. Heck, that's even if you remember it/him because you will have moved onto bigger & better things. 

Right now, you probably want to bad mouth him to the people who asked "what happened between you two?" But don't. Be the bigger person & tell whoever asks that it just didn't work out. As much as you want to say wrong things about him, you just look silly!! 

Only time will heal your heart, along with this list of things. I hope you got a little inspiration out of this. Don't ever feel like you're not good enough because you're MORE then good enough..just a little too good for him. ;) :)

Also, don't ever lay your happiness in someone else's hands && you won't ever need somebody who doesn't need you.

CHEERS TO YOUR BRIGHT FUTURE! ❤︎❤︎❤︎